I am rewatching Supernatural right now and have since found that I love Dean's character more and Jensen himself as an actor. I have seen Jared's projects more but I do honestly care for him as much as I thought I did. I do think Jared was one in the wrong for how he went to social media before going to Jensen himself. He should have kept it all off of social media in my opinion, but that is how I live my life, you have a problem with someone, you keep it to one on one private conversations. And as a celebrity, he should have said something to his fans about how they are acting towards someone he considers family. But I am sorry you are losing friends over this. this is not something you should be losing friends over. True friends stay through all your different opinions.